The first thing you have to do is, 'know what you want' and 'know what you don't want'. Once you determine this, you can start to 'imagine a new future', one where you focus on what you do want. This will start the creation process of your new life.
When the universe knows that you are clear about your direction, you will create a magnetic force, which will bring you what you need.
Be clear about everything from family, to finances and keep moving towards your desired future.